Tabby Neutered Girl Cat

by karen
(liverpool)

Hi my name is Karen we have a 14mnth old tabby neutered girl cat we idolize. Her or she is very spoiled. She gets in bed, likes to be fed her wet food from a little plastic fork and we love being at her beck and call.

She is a great hunter, likes to be out in the woods were we live all night and sleep on our bed all day. My problem is I want her to sit on my lap and be around me all the time and she just likes to come when she wants. unfortunately its on her terms and I would like to have her affections all the time.

So we thought we would give our home and time to a new kitten which we did and oh my god she was so upset setting on the new kitten then she was taking to trying to get out at all costs and not eating or coming in.

I felt so guilty we had a friend which took the kitten for us and now our cat is very put out. She wont look at us and just wants t be out. I feel like I have been given the cold shoulder. I think she does like her home but shes just not that affectionate. So we have our cat but with out the lap cat experience am so sad and crave the contact. Am I being too intense for my tabby neutered girl cat?